《Interview translation of Kamiki Ryunosuke from “Daily MORE”》 2/2

—I heard you’re studying about fashion, so what kind of fashion for ladies do you like?

R: Well, I think everyone’s very fashionable. For instance, there’s lots of styles one example of shirts: tuck shirt in or untucked, just front or all, how much should I tuck in...
Especially the ladies of my generation are excellent at such artistic sense. However, it’s enough for me just watching such fashionable people. I feel awkward so I can’t stand next to them. LOL. I may feel relaxed if she doesn’t care so much about her outfits and wears casual clothes like T-shirt and jeans when she stays with me.

—“I have no worries and I’m satisfied.” I found this word everywhere on your book. As you know lots of people have trouble with their works and relationships. How do you overcome these difficulties?

R: It seems very optimistic, I think we can solve most problems in our lives.
If you worry about something, you look at yourself objectively, think about how many choices do you have and try by yourself.

For instance if you don’t get along with your boss, you have these choices: try your best to understand him/her or asking transfer to other departments or leave the company. There’re lots of choices. Some of them are big and another one is small. You can choose and try what you make sense from these choices, and even if you fail you just think of what to do next. This way will work well and you’ve never ended up without any progress.

—I see. In short, “Look at myself objectively and let’s try anyway.” Is that right?

R: Yes. It might be extreme, if you worry about relationships maybe it works well that think like this “What’s the meaning of the existence of the person for me and my life?”

As long as you think about your family or close friends, it’s still good but it’s waste of time to think about unreasonable or thoughtless person for you. It’s better and more meaningful to move your emotions for your loved one.

After all, it’s up to you I mean you should solve your problems by yourself, so if you get stuck in the issue, take a break!
Check tweets of someone on Twitter, drink cup of coffee, and after you finished your break let’s think like that “Well, what should I do next?” That’s good enough.