【A suspension bridge effect】 The best way your lover will fell in love with you.

Do you have someone you'd like to go out with?　

When you ask someone to go out with you, the situation is very important, but what do you think is the best situation?

Today we will introduce not only suspension bridges but also situations where you can use the suspension bridge effect around you.

It's also said to be effective for couples who have been together for many years, so please stay with me until the end of this topic. Beforehand, please hit the subscription and like buttons.

What is the suspension bridge effect?

Our brains mistake the feeling of crossing a suspension bridge for a love interest.

The experiment was carried out on a swinging suspension bridge and a non-swinging suspension bridge.

When a woman gave her phone number to a man and said "Call me if you're interested in me" on a swinging suspension bridge, most men called her later.

On the other hand, only about 10% of calls came from the non-swinging suspension bridge situation.

When the physiological excitement is so strong, the brain mistakenly believes that it is in love.

It's a bit strange, but this is a fact. In psychology, this misunderstanding is called "misattribution".

In other words, the best time to make your lover fell in love with you is in the middle of a swinging suspension bridge.

it's not so easy to find a swinging suspension bridge around you but it's okay!

The suspension bridge effect can be expected even if it is not a suspension bridge.

It can be haunted houses, roller coasters, horror or action movies and fancy luxurious restaurants.

The suspension bridge effect will make it easier for your lover to fall in love with you in the situation that you two share the experience of feeling anxieties and fears.

Walking together on a dark street at night is also an effective situation for developing a relationship.
By "enjoying the thrill of it together," your both brains mistake to think you are fell in love.

The suspension bridge effect is also good for a couple who have been together for a long time. It prevents for getting bored with being together for long.
The secret to a long-lasting relationship between a man and a woman is to "enjoy the thrill of it together".

Summing up

Sharing a thrilling feeling can spark love.
Even if it doesn't develop into a relationship, the familiarity will definitely increase. It'll make you feel closer.

The suspension bridge effect also helps to break up the rut for a couple being together for a long time.

If you remember the suspension bridge effect, I'm sure it will help you.

Thank you for staying with me till the end of this topic. I hope you find it useful and hit the like and subscription buttons.

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