3 Ways to Find the Right One【How to Choose a Marriage Partner You Won't Regret】

There are 3 ways to find your right marriage partner.

Marriage is like a marathon. It would be too late to say "It wasn't supposed to be like this! "

If you want a happy married life, it is very important to choose the right partner.

In this topic, I would like to talk about "How to choose the right marriage partner you will never regret".

How to choose the right marriage partner you will never regret

When people choose a marriage partner, they tend to find ones with looks, wealth and love. 

Although those factors are important, you should consider below three important points.

(1) Finding out your partner's real character
(2) Whether your partner is compatible with you or not?
(3) Whether you will dislike with your partner or not?

(1) Finding out your partner's real character

Before you get married, keep both eyes open, and after you marry, close one eye.

What should you look at with both eyes wide open before you get married?

Look at your partner with both eyes wide open.

You have to look at your partner's real character

In other words, it is important to find out your partner's "real character" before you get married.

There are 3 checkpoints to easily detect the real character of the other party.

3 tips to see through a person's true nature

1. Check how good your partner's driving attitude is.
Seeing through your partner's real character from driving.
A calm driver is a calm personality...
An aggressive driver will gradually come out aggression in the marriage life.

2. Check how good your partner's drinking behave is.
you can see through the other person's real character through alcohol.
When a person gets drunk, the true nature of the person comes out easily.

The longer you live in a marriage, the more your partner reveals hidden real character.

By looking at a drunkard, you can see what the other person will look like in a few years' time, such as bright, dark, angry, and argumentative.

3. Check how good your partner's relationship with family members.
The way your partner deal with family members gives you insight into a hidden real character.

What kind of attitude does your partner have towards family members?

By looking at it, you can see how you will be treated in the future.

By checking out the three things above, 
It gives you a glimpse into the future of the other person.

(2) Whether your partner is compatible with you or not?

Compatibility is a very important factor.
Even if your partner is "nice, rich, good-looking"...
If you don't have the right chemistry, you can't have an enjoyable married life.

I'm sure there are some people who would say,
"I don't have to look at every single thing to know if my partner is compatible with me. It's fun to be with, and we have the same hobbies."

In fact, this is a common pitfall.

Marriage is long and has its ups and downs.

Without more "essential compatibility," it will be difficult for a marriage to move forward successfully.

So here's a very simple way to find out if your partner is compatible with you or not.

Take a walk around with your partner. A Longer walk is better if possible.

A long walk is like a life..

It's not fun to go for a walk alone, but it's always good to do that with someone with some nice conversations and laughs.

See if you feel fun and comfortable by walking with your partner. 
If everything goes smoothly including conversations and walking pace, then the chemistry is perfect!

(3) Whether you will dislike with your partner or not?

"The marriage is long way like a marathon".

So, if you become disliking the other person, the rest of your life will be a graveyard.

So, what are the requirements for  "Someone you can love forever"?

That's someone you can respect.

Humans can't love someone forever if they can't respect someone.

If you don't have anything to respect your partner, you're definitely going to be boring with your partner.

Ask yourself "What kind of a person can I respect? 

A positive one?
An active one?
A nice to everyone?
A hard worker?
A strong one? 

If your partner is a person you can respect then that is a bingo.

That's a trick to find the right one who you don't dislike forever.

The person you marry has a big influence on your happy life.
It's important to be in love, but... If you choose a partner based only on your current feelings, you are more likely to regret it once it cools off. Open both of your eyes wide open and find the right one.

Remember finding the right person is not a goal, it is just a new start of your life with someone you are happy with. It is easy to expect your partner too much but why don't both of you to inspire each other and grow together for your happy married life.

5 Action Plans

1. Check how good your partner's driving attitude is.
2. Check how good your partner's drinking behave is.
3. Check how good your partner's relationship with family members.
4. Take a long walk with your partner and see if you feel fun and comfortable including the conversations and the walking pace.
5. Check if your partner is someone you can respect.

Thank you for staying with me at the end of the topic. Hopefully, you write the good comments if you find the right one and If you like this topic, please hit the subscribe or like buttons!

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