The tragic end of waiting for people who say bad things about the community they belong to

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Well, today I'm going to talk about "the miserable end of waiting for people who say bad things about the community I belong to".

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Well, everyone.

Aren't you around you?

A person who says bad things about the community he belongs to.

This is around, isn't it?

It's a world where there are many complaints.

It's not like that, but there are quite a few people of this kind in every community.

No matter how good the company is, no matter how excellent the school is, even in club activities and hobby clubs that give great results.

Well, so this time, I'm going to take up people who say bad things about the community I belong to, but how do you feel when you're on the side of the person who said this?

What do you think?

I say bad things about the community I belong to.

For example, "the executives are incompetent" or "the treatment is at the bottom!" Or, "Even if you try your best, you won't be rewarded", you're saying what you like.

There are people who are not good at using words, right?

Do you feel good when you are by such a person's side?

I'm sure it won't work, right?

There are places where I agree, "That's right" or "That's right!" And there are many things that come to mind.

It's a fact.

But don't you feel comfortable with yourself?

I agree, but have you ever never felt a little different, such as "No, I didn't say that much" or "I don't think it's that bad"?

"No, that's too much to say!" Or do you feel sick after listening to it?

As for what kind of psychology is working in everyone's heart, if you belong to the same community and are called bad about that community, in the end, you will have the illusion that you are also being criticized. That's right.

It's like, "I'm a bad person who belongs to the community that is said badly."

It's not really bad, and you should think separately from the community and the individual.

People with high sensitivity and HSP temperament are especially easy to fall into.

When the community you belong to is criticized, you feel like you are also denied.

That's where the sense of self-denial increases.

When that happens, many people feel uncomfortable, so even if they think that the community is not good, they feel like they are being denied, so they get a little annoyed.

If that happens, "Where is the outlet of frustration going?" Yes.

Naturally, he will return to his former master.

"Who is your ex-master?" That's what I mean, but that's the person who said something bad, right?

So, it becomes a composition that the poison you spit out goes around and comes back to you.

So, let's start today's summary around here.

"The tragic end of waiting for people who say bad things about the community you belong to" means that there is a high possibility that everyone will hate you and be alone.

If you are in such a community, your shoulders will be narrow.

It's going to be difficult for many people.

In this case, there is another remaining means.

To get out of the community.

So, if there are people who don't want to be like that, please read this story until you can fall and try to correct the bad words about the community you belong to little by little.

So how was it?

Today's story.

In this way, about the tragic end that comes to people who do 〇〇 every day, and about the destruction of human relationships if you do this, various things related to human relationships, etc., use psychology, brain science, personality analysis, etc. to understand and make a blog. I am doing it.

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