A miserable end that waits for people who expect others without permission

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Well, today I'm going to talk about "the tragic end that waits for people who expect others without permission".

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Well, everyone.

First of all, I would like to ask everyone.

Isn't there a person like this around you?

That's why he's the kind of person who expects others without permission.

Don't you really know?

It's not like that, is it?

Because, think about it carefully, in fact, there is a certain number in every community.

For example, I thought, "That person would do it," and when I went home without saying anything, I came the next day, for example, I thought he would clean up, but I thought he would lock the lock or something like that. I was there, but it was left open, or I thought it would be taking in the laundry, but it was as it was, can't you imagine it as it is?

After talking so far, "Ah, ah, then there is!" Can't it be?

Some people will have a lot of images, right?

But to tell you the truth, all of these are the assumptions of people who expected them without permission.

"It's okay if you do it!" I'm also an assumption that I think.

Certainly, there are people who do it without saying it.

But there are people who can't do it even if they are told.

Moreover, to put it more, there are people who usually do it without saying it, but for some reason forget it only on that day.

There are many people in the world who do what they are told, people who don't do it when they are told, and people who ignore it even if they are told.

In other words, you don't know who is which type at first.

Well, the longer you get along, the more you understand the person's personality, so you can expect or not to give up at some point, but as a measure to solve this problem, first of all, It is to stop expecting that they will do it on their own just by making assumptions.

If you expect each other's humanity, personality, what you can do, what you can't do, what you're good at, what you're not good at, etc., the differences in each other's way of thinking will come out clearly early on, and the bad points of each other will be noticed. It will be.

If that happens, there is a good chance that you will be in a terminal state.

That is, due to the nature of a person, once a person's bad point is noticed, the brain has a mechanism that continuously finds the bad points.

So, in fact, if you look closely, there are quite a few good points, but there is psychological blindness, and it becomes something that didn't exist.

Moreover, due to each other's different way of thinking and values, they will also clash their claims, and if that happens, most people will already be in a state of hand, unfortunately.

The remaining road is to the collapse of human relationships.

So, let's get into today's conclusion.

Today's conclusion, "The tragic end that waits for people who expect others without permission" means losing friends due to the collapse of relationships.

Well, by the way, people get frustrated when they are disappointed in anticipation, aren't they?

In some cases, you resent it, don't you?

This is not good for the mentality, so it causes bad events one after another.

So, after a miserable end, there is a possibility that you will not only lose your mental illness, but also attract other bad events... There is a possibility that you will enter a negative loop, so really, if you have an idea, especially at the beginning It is better for you to cut off the loop.

So, I hope that everyone will carefully reread what we talked about today, and use it in real life.

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