I want those who are obsessed with remembering people's names to read it.

Hello, everyone.

Sai & Co. WAKU Chare Labo's Sai & Co. It is.

Well, today, I'm going to talk about "I want those who are obsessed with remembering people's names to read it" while brushing up my past blog.

Today's story, if "It was good!" If there is such a person, please share it😁

Then it's the main topic.

I'm not good at remembering people's names.

I mean, there are places where I try not to remember it right away on purpose.

Well, if it's normal, I understand that it's more advantageous to remember than not to remember.

(I think it's easier to understand why it's advantageous to remember people's names in a psychological way.

First of all, when you call the other person, it's easier to say "I'm sorry, Mr. 〇〇" instead of "I'm sorry for the person there", and from the other person's point of view, "Oh! This person remembers my name," and there are times when I review it a little.

Moreover, the name has a deep relationship with your existence, and it is an identity that proves your existence.

If you think about it carefully, there was no name in ancient times, and as we get closer to modern times, there was a culture called name, and until now, in the past, everyone was together, but now it has become a tool to prove each individual.

It's my number in modern times.

That means that the name is so important to us, and we are confirming the existence of ourselves by being called by the name.

In other words, the name is a tool that will be advantageous to both the other party and yourself.)

But the reason why I don't try to remember a person's name right away is because I'm concentrating on listening to the story that person says first before that person's name.

Whether it's a useful story for me or a useless story, if you're taking the time to listen to that person for the time being, I'll input where I can input.

The place to listen is easy to go through.

In other words, I'm repeating this thought in my head, so I simply don't have time to remember the name.

If you pay attention to remembering the name, you tend to miss the person's story and gestures.

I'm also studying psychology, so aren't you lying?

Are you telling the truth?

Are you serious?

Is it appropriate?

Do you want to identify various things and connect with that person all the time? I'm also thinking about it.

If you want to connect with that person, you can say, "I'm sorry. I missed it earlier, so may I ask your name again?" Or, "Excuse me, but I forgot your name.

Can you tell me again?" Or, "I'm sorry, I'm not good at remembering names. Can I ask your name again?" Or, you just need to apologize once for forgetting the name you were told once and ask again.

By the way, I judge that it is not worth connecting with people who don't tell me.

(Whether the judgment criteria written here are good or bad varies from person to person, so I'll put it aside a little, but in my opinion, first of all, prioritize and remember what the person himself is doing and what kind of person before the name. I am.

Do you feel like you're looking at your personality?

If it's a name, you can remember as much as you want later.

I didn't force myself to remember it from that moment of the first time, and I think what's really important is the person's personality.)

You can hear the name later like this, and I think it's information that can be anything for me at any time.

There are business courses that teach you that it's better to remember and call the other person's name right away, or that it's the worst to mistake the name, but it doesn't deny itself.

Still, some people are not good at remembering names and make mistakes.

For such a person, it's just an imposition, it's just cramped.

(Again, it's better to remember than not to remember the mountains.

But I think the really important thing is to appeal how sincere you are.

Even if you can say not to make a mistake in your name, if you are dishonest, you will not have a relationship after that, and even if you don't remember your name first, even if you don't remember your name a little if you convey your sincerity to the other party, even if you tell it by mistake, it's not a little It's just a mistake with a margin of error.

On the contrary, I think it's wise to cut off the relationship from here as soon as possible with people who get angry or cut off the relationship to that extent.)

But it's okay.

Even if you don't remember the name, even if you call it by mistake, there was a way to build a good relationship.

However, if you don't remember the name, you make a mistake, and you don't listen to what you're talking about, there's nothing you can do.

You just need to prioritize the person who remembers the name, or you can focus on what you are talking about, or choose the one you are good at.

You never have to remember all the people you meet, and it's a waste to spend time in such a place.

If you are a person you meet every day, you will definitely have the opportunity to hear that person's name once or twice somewhere, and then you will remember it naturally, and you don't have to work hard.

There is no problem.

So I attach great importance to the content of the story.

(I'll say it again because it's important.

If you are a person who is in a bad mood because your name is wrong, you should withdraw from us first.

That's how narrow the vessel of mind is.

Business negotiations and ordinary small talk are also fine.

The important thing is not the person's name, but the content of the conversation, right?

Certainly, I think there are those who have pride in their own name and those who have feelings for it, but it's wise to cut off the relationship with those who attack you even though you are not mistaken for it.

There is no doubt that it will be troublesome later.)

See you later✌️

(So how was this story today?

Could I have helped you a little?

Every day like this, I'm going to blog about how to relax my shoulders for those who are a little tense, how to blog how to relieve stress, how to communicate well, how to build good relationships Even if I do, I'm blogging.

So if this other blog is also "I'm interested!" If there is someone like that, please come and visit us once.

We are also waiting for you to register as a friend on the official LINE.

Finally, today's story, "It was good!" If you say so, please share it with your friends.

See you later✌️)