If you deepen people's hearts, you can see the truth of things.

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Then it's the main topic.

I thought deeply about the inconvenience.

First of all, from the meaning, the general dictionary explains as follows.

"It looks grateful on the surface, but it's actually annoying."

This is the meaning of a nuisance.

As the word says, it means that it's a thank you thing, but it's only a nuisance to the recipient.

It's an easy-to-understand word.

Well, it's this grateful nuisance word, but there are still a certain number around me.

But I can't say that to the person himself, so I'm saying "thank you" on the surface as it means.

(If it's not too much, if you say "thank you" for the time being on the spot, things will go well.

This is also a solution to avoid conflicts with others.

But if it happens every time and it becomes more stressful, you have to take the plunge and say something.

Or avoid that person completely.

The other person is doing it because he thinks it's good, so there's no offense.

So, if you can't avoid that person, or if there is something that causes a prolonged nuisance, it might be better to explain it to your face.

However, being grateful is a very good thing, so I recommend it in any situation.

By thanking each other, the other person doesn't feel bad, and we can have a good atmosphere for each other.

In other words, you can work on work, family life, and study in a very good atmosphere, so the efficiency will also increase.)

Well, even if it's hypocritical, I don't think "thank you" itself is a bad thing, but in fact, directly to the other party, "It's annoying, so can you stop it?" I think there are people who say that.

Then I will think and explain why such a phenomenon occurs in my own way, but first of all, it is about the phenomenon that is happening.

It's considered to be "thankful" to the other person, but I think it's a state of ignoring the other person's feelings and doing something unilaterally, so to speak.

Or are you forcing yourself to do it even though the other party is refusing? It's like that.

Originally, when you have a task, it's true that it's more helpful to have someone else do it than to do it yourself if you do it anyway.

If it's not about privacy, it's usually helpful.

Even if it's a chore.

But I can't accept that kindness honestly...

Why is that?

Let's change our way of thinking a little.

For example, what if the person who gets it is the person you like?

Will you feel reserved and disgusted in the same way?

I would be nervous if I was made by someone I respect or admire, but I think the majority of people will probably take it favorably and accept it obediently.

That's right!

The kindness received from a favorable person is not a nuisance.

"Thank you!!︎" Is it something like that?

So what's the difference between the two?

That's right.

Whether it's a favor or a dislike, in other words, the feelings you have in the other person are different.

That means that the other party is not at fault, but rather, the cause of the problem that is causing a nuisance is that you.

(I think very few people are aware of this composition.

You tend to take responsibility for things to others, but in fact, as you go deeper, you realize that the problem is in you.

That said, it's hard to like people you don't like, so the merit of that effort is that much, if you don't calculate it well, you'll only waste time, so why don't you think about it carefully and see it? Is it?)

If you know this, wouldn't it be a little 70 to 30 or 60 to 40 that you thought that the opponent was bad at 100 to 0?

Moreover, if you are getting up, it means that you can control it if you work a little harder.

(If you want to know how to like someone you don't like, please send me a message from my official LINE.

I will reply politely as soon as possible.

I want to write the answer here, but I'm sorry that I can't do so due to the number of characters.)

If you understand the logic, all you have to do is choose whether to do it or not.

However, just knowing that you are the one who is causing the inconvenience.

I think you can see it in a very different way.

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