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The reason why it's better not to be misled by the word "people are all different".

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Well, today, I'm going to talk about "the reason why it's better not to be misled by the word "people are ten people, ten colors".

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Then it's the main topic.

Well, everyone.

Haven't you all heard of it at least once?

The word "ten people, ten colors."

This word is ten people and ten colors, but the meaning is "everyone is different" right?

Then, don't you think that at first glance, "It's a word with a very good meaning" that everyone is different?

That means that everyone is different, so it means to value individuals and individuality, right?

In this day and age, "Take care of your individuality!" It's been a long time since you've been told, "You should assert yourself more."

However, in Japanese school education, there are still many situations where it is much better for everyone to learn the same way, like group learning, but in recent years when global society has become the standard, the United States and Europe A culture that learns from and values individuality is getting stronger.

Then, about that personality, everyone has their own personality, and I think there are probably no people who have lost this personality, but "Take care of that personality!" I think it's more natural for those who have been taught.

On NHK's educational TV, there was a word "everyone is different and everyone is good" in the lyrics of a song I've often heard a long time ago, but it's true, and everyone's face shape, appearance, all of them are different, so that's natural, so, It's normal to be different from that, and that's not strange.

Gender, disability, skin color, slow or fast, whether you can study or not, you can be good at something and not good at something.

Because it's based on the idea that it's a personality.

That's certainly the correct interpretation.

I don't deny it, but there's one thing I'm a little worried about.

That's what I want to tell you the most today, but in fact, if you believe in ten people and ten colors (individuality), "You might have a hard time with that?" That's what I mean.

The bias I've introduced on my blog several times so far.

Because cognitive bias works.

Moreover, the stronger the assumption, the more powerful the bias it becomes and lives in people's hearts.

That's why the influence varies from large to small depending on a person's personality, but it's quite troublesome when it becomes a negative bias.

If you become a negative bias, what is troublesome is that as a result, you will see everything negatively, so if that happens, you will deny yourself.

For example, let's say you have a belief that you are not good at talking to people.

This is also a great personality, isn't it?

Why is it individuality? I'll tell you the reason for that another time, but in fact, it's a personality that you don't have to think too much in the first place. But if you decide too much that "that's my personality", on the contrary, your heart may get tired.

When you need to talk to people, when you have to go out.

At times like this, if you think too strongly that "your personality is not good at talking to people", it will be difficult to find an escape route and it will be painful.

So, how can I escape from that curse, the thing that lives in my heart? In other words, you don't have to be too conscious of your individuality, and you can decide which personality you should put out on a case-by-case basis.

It is said that you can choose a number of personalities and use them separately.

However, if you use a lot of personality at once, it can be regarded as just a weirdo or a multiple personality, so please refrain from disturbing it in a short period of time.

So how was it?

Today's story.

There were many points of the story, and I think there were some points that were a little difficult to understand.

There is also a way to use individuality, so if you are interested, please contact us once.

We are also looking forward to your questions and consultations.

Well, every day like this, I write a blog while mixing several stories such as "Actually, it's just an assumption."

So, please come and visit other past blogs.

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