The tragic end of waiting for those who tell everything over

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Isn't there anyone around you?

A person who tells me a little bit about what happened.

This is common to all communities, but if people gather, there are a certain number of people everywhere.

Moreover, aren't people who say and do such things somewhat anxious people?

By the way, there are people I know like this, but that person is quite a worried person.

Well, I understand the feeling of worrying about the future.

People have just developed their brains and have become able to think about various things, so it can't be helped if it can't be helped.

Moreover, it is a trap that people who have had various experiences are relatively easy to fall into, but just knowing various futures, the imagination works too much.

I think there were some events that I thought selfishly, such as "That was hard," even if it's not actually hard.

So as for what you can expect, if you prepare it in advance, you don't have to panic when that happens.

But that's right, please think back carefully.

Isn't that worry over 90% of the probability that it won't happen?

What this means is that in reality, it almost never happens.

Moreover, even if it happens, isn't there anything wrong with dealing with the place?

Do you say that it's going to be, or to say that it's only going to be, even though I was very worried, it's unexpectedly going to happen at that time, isn't it?

I'm sorry it's a little too abstract, but it's really true.

For example, when you try a new job.

Have you ever been infused with a lot of worries from people?

So, I was also swayed by various worries, and even though I thought too much about various things until just before, I felt stressed, strangely nervous, and became suspicious, but it was the first day of the start.

But when you actually start working on that work, 90% of the things you were worried about will not happen, and even if it happens, you will get help from collaborators, or at worst, even if you are scolded by customers, it will eventually settle down, right?

I'm not sure if it still exists, but in the live broadcast of TV, "The comedian of 〇〇 is coming late. Didn't you have something like "I can't make it in time for the live broadcast?"

From the facts, this is a big failure, isn't it?

Because I'm not in time for the appointment.

But what about the actual scene?

The program progressed as if the person was not late, and even if you really can't make it in time until the end, the program will proceed and end, right?

Moreover, on the way, if you can get in touch with the person, on the contrary, you could let the person broadcast the place where you are going to the TV station, and you can overcome the urgent situation, or change the idea, and on the contrary, the audience enjoyed the sense of realism, right?

It's like this, and it's going to be somehow.

Moreover, there are people who actually researched this, and I think it was an overseas person, but it's a pretty famous study, but the probability of people's worries will occur, I'm sure about 96% of the research results have come out.

Well, I think it was a very old research, and now it's called FUGA, so the probability may decrease a little from now on, but a big earthquake will occur where you don't actually predict it, or fight first in a different place from what you expected. Conflicts have started, companies that have been unknown until now are suddenly rising and causing revolutionary phenomena in the world, and unpredictable events are happening one after another.

However, in real life, doesn't this law quite apply?

That applies, doesn't it?

That's right.

So, even if you are worried about the future too much, it's just a struggle, you can make people around you worry unnecessarily, or make you feel uneasy, and it's like using brain resources with negative information, so it's for your body and mental It's not a good thing.

Moreover, even for the person in question, that is, the person who tells everything over, the disadvantages will be more noticeable.

That's basically, because you're going to be certified like a liar, no matter what.

Because that worry doesn't happen in reality.

So, "You don't have to believe what he says. Because it's not like that," rumors spread, and if that happens, as you all know, you won't be trusted, you won't be dealt with, and in that community, you will be heading towards isolation. Nario is progressing.

So I don't know for sure if I'm saying it with the intention that I want you to understand, whether I'm serious about it, or if I'm saying it to scare you, but I repeatedly tell others what happened in the overtime. If you do, you won't be trusted eventually, and when it's really important, you won't be able to move when you want everyone's help, you won't be able to cooperate, and you won't be trusted, so for those who don't want to happen, now It's better to refrain from talking about your worries and telling the people around you little by little.

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