If you belong to a community, it's better to make a gap.

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Sai & Co. This is Sai & Co. from WAKU Challenge Lab.

Well, today, ``If you belong to the community, it's better to create a gap. ] will be explained.

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Well everyone.

Do you like living alone? Or do you like living in groups with other people?

Well, each person has their own preferences, so it's not like one is better than the other, but most people live in a certain group.

For example, if you are a member of society, it is your workplace. School if you are a student. If you are a housewife (husband), you will be at home.

So, I think it will be easier to understand if you read this story while thinking about that scene.

Now, when it comes to those communities, communities at work, school, home, etc., people are at the heart of what they are made up of.

In other words, we can't belong to that group if we keep getting involved with people.

In other words, if you don't get along well with people, you will find it difficult to be in that group, and you will end up in a very uncomfortable place.

When that happens, it becomes troublesome to go out of your way to go there, and you gradually become less and less likely to go there.

If this happens, the community you have worked so hard for will be wasted, so I will tell you how to prevent it.

It's about creating a gap.​

And there is meaning in making it daringly.

Japanese people have a serious personality, and many people think that they have to be perfect, and if they don't do it correctly, they will annoy people.

Therefore, it is easy to try to make it perfect by yourself without relying on others, but this is actually what keeps others away.

First of all, from the person in question, my heart is like this.

"I can't cause trouble for people, so let's do what we can do correctly and accurately."

But when I look at it from the perspective of other people, I think this way when I see the way I'm doing my best.

"It's amazing that he can do everything by himself. I don't want to give him a hand and cause trouble, so I'm going to leave him alone." You can do it by yourself, so you should be fine without me."

By the time you realize this, there will be no people around you.

It means that you are isolated.

When that happens, it becomes difficult for them to stay in that community, so they tend to leave.

That's why I dare to create a gap.

A gap is a place where you are not good at, a place where you are not good at, a place where you are careless.

Then someone will appear to help fill the gap.

surely.

If so, it belongs here. Let's be sweet at that time.

I honestly appreciate your willingness to help me.

Thank you very much for your help.

By doing so, you will be able to build a mutual relationship, so you will be able to get rid of each other's barriers and make it easier for each other to talk to each other next time.

In this way, we will increase the number of friends who can help each other.

By doing so, you will find yourself firmly integrated into the community.

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