Everything can't go smoothly at your own convenience.

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Well, today I'm going to talk about "Everything can't go on my convenience."

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Well, everyone.

How is everyone?

Is there anyone who tends to think that the scenario will proceed at their convenience about the work, event management, and arrangement of things that you are involved in?

Well, it depends on the person, but in terms of personality, there are quite a lot of people who are worried, serious people who like arrangements, and so on.

That's because you think too much about scenarios and arrangements, and you fall into the illusion that things will go on your own.

You are free to think in your head, no matter how much you think about it, it's all personal freedom.

That's why you can complete the story and scenario in yourself conveniently without permission.

In reality, it's full of uncertainties.

There's basically no one in your head who gets in your way, right?

Everyone is like a yes man.

Moreover, people basically hate troublesome things, so they tend to draw simple and simple stories rather than drawing troublesome stories.

For example, if you talk to or consult with others while drawing, the situation will change again.

Because people were able to see the story from a different perspective.

Because there is a great possibility that someone else can find a blind spot that I couldn't find.

But when you say this, some people don't listen to other people's opinions.

Rather, it's a person who wants to be upset and force himself to carry things according to the story he made.

This kind of person is the worst.

If you're going to do things by yourself, it's still good, but if it's a job with a partner, it won't be like that.

If there is a fault in that story, it will also affect the people who are doing it together.

In other words, what I want to say is that even if you work hard alone, you assume things only with your own knowledge and prejudice, so you won't notice uncertainties that you don't know or have never experienced.

Moreover, when such an uncertain element appears, it's not in my scenario, so I don't know what to do, and it ends up like, "Yes, that person's life is already stuck."

If that's the case, wouldn't it be easier to throw away that assumption from the beginning?

If you think that it doesn't go the way you want from the beginning, even if things don't go according to your scenario, you can think, "I see, that's how it will happen," right?

If you think "I see, will that happen?" means that you can keep a very relaxed state, so in such a case, it is surprisingly easy to think of another scenario.

There is a function called default mode network in the brain function, but this works.

In other words, don't people come up with a good idea when they're in a daze?

That's the state that the default mode network is working.

I'm nervous, and I'm in a state where various thoughts are running through my head, so-called atat times like this, it's hard to think of a breakthrough because I'm in a hurry.

That means, if you relax and reverse your thinking in your head and stop everything, it's easy to come up with breakthroughs and good ideas, right?

This is exactly what the default mode network is about.

That's why people need extra time to be dazed.

It's not useless.

So how was it, today's story?

I scattered various topics today, but wasn't it difficult to understand?

I'll add one more thing at the end.

It may be bad, but everyone hates people who think that everything goes smoothly at their own convenience, so please be careful.

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