How to exchange the opponent's unreasonable problems with Sarari

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Well, today I'm going to talk about "how to exchange the opponent's impossible problems with Sarari".

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Well, everyone, have you ever been told an unreasonable task by someone once or twice?

That said, depending on the age at that time and the situation in which it is located, you may think of it as a difficult task, or if you think about it now, you may think that it is not so, and if you think back, "Why were you worried about such a thing for a while?" I think there are a lot of nostalgic things.

Well, today, I'm not going to receive such an impossible problem that I feel in the current situation, or an impossible problem that may come in the future, but I avoid it smoothly, such a technique. Let me introduce one.

It's very easy to do.

Simply, when you are told an impossible task, you just have to refuse.

Straight ahead.

The line is also easy.

"It's impossible," "It's no good," "I'm not free," or whatever.

Don't think about it.

If possible, it's more effective to refuse without putting in your hair.

There are many people who can't say this unexpectedly, but just because you refuse, there are not many things like the other person will resent you, you will be bad about later, or your evaluation will go down in various ways.

I'm just thinking too much.

Have you ever experienced anything like this?

The truth is, I don't know what you're thinking, but it's in someone else's head.

However, even after you refuse, why don't you treat me as usual?

There are few people who are mean, have a stronger tone, or suddenly change their attitude, right?

That's right.

Unexpectedly, most of the people who asked for an errand don't care about the other person even if they are refused.

Isn't it the same for yourself?

When you try to ask someone to do something you have to do, are you trying to ask with a feeling similar to guilt, such as "It's a little bad" or "I wonder if this is no good" or "I'm sorry"?

So unexpectedly, people who ask for a favor are in a state of mind that they are asking for it.

In the end, there is also a safety net that says, "If everyone refuses, it can't be helped, can I do it myself?"

So you don't have to feel guilty about refusing more than necessary.

So, the story went sideways, but the way to refuse is as easy as I told you before.

It's okay with just one word, "It's impossible."

Also, if you force it to color, it will be more realistic if you put your emotions on it, and it will be easier for the other party to accept what you refused.

It feels a little hard to raise the amount of heat a little and say, "It's impossible," isn't it?

You think, "Oh, you're serious," right?

For example, if you calmly say "It's impossible", it feels a little cold, and while laughing, "It's impossible" feels like a joke, and it's suspected that you're refusing on purpose even though you can actually afford it.

However, if you go until you get angry, it feels a little too much, so at first, if you say it in a way that appeals a little desperate and difficult, most people will pull you.

However, even if you do these things, some people will force you to do it.

He's a person who gives a sense of power harassment.

If there is such a person, it is better for you to run away from such a person as much as possible.

No matter what you say, it's waste.

If you have time to face it, it may be better to think about whether to avoid meeting or leave the community if you can.

Because there is a high possibility that he has a so-called dark personality.

There are a certain number of people in every community who just take away other people's time, money, and labor, so please be careful.

Also, this technique is strictly prohibited for abuse.

If you use it to hurt people, it will come back to you, so please be careful about this point as well.

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