Even if you send a message to yourself, it won't resonate with the other person.

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Well, today I will talk about "I will send a message to myself, but it will not resonate with the other person."

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Isn't it around you?

A person who sends a message that has not arrived at all even if it is a message to the other party.

Is it a little hard to understand?

For example, I'm having a conversation, but I can't get what the other person said at all.

Is there anyone who doesn't resonate?

This is unexpectedly a lot, isn't it?

Because these kinds of people intend to say it to the other person, but actually there are a lot of things they are saying to themselves.

For example, even in a company, "You have to do this properly. You're wrong!" Let's say you pointed out a mistake in the report.

At first glance, it's a message that's not strange anywhere, isn't it?

It's not wrong in Japanese, and it's a line that I often hear in TV dramas.

But is there anyone who feels uncomfortable when they are actually told this?

I mean, it's annoying.

Actually, it's hidden in here, not a message to the other person, but a message to yourself.

Because if it's a message to the other person, will such a line really come out?

First of all, the report made by subordinates and juniors was wrong.

In this case, if you first think about the other person and point out the mistake, if it's true, "This is wrong. If you don't correct this, I'll lower my evaluation!" Or, "What's wrong here? You're wrong, it's not like you." Or, "If you don't fix it here, it'll be a little troublesome later, so I'll finish it now." Or, words that care about the other person should be scattered in some places.

But the line of the example is, "You have to do this properly. You're wrong!" Just saying that, it's just a failure, isn't it?

Do you feel motivated by this?

"Okay, I'll do my best to fix it!" What will it be?

Well, most people won't do it.

"What the hell. I'm busy now, do it later." Or, even if I don't say it, I think in my heart.

That means that it hasn't reached the other person, and it doesn't resonate with the other person's heart.

Then who did you say this message for? That's what I mean, but of course, the rest will be the other person, that is, the line I said for myself.

That's why the correct line earlier is like this.

"You have to do this properly. You're wrong! If you make a mistake, I'll be in trouble." Is.

Yes, actually, "I'll be in trouble if you make a mistake." Is an omitted message.

That's why I can't reach the other person.

Well, it's not usually possible to reach it, right?

Because it's a line that only thinks about itself.

From the perspective of the surroundings, these kinds of people will be distanced if they go too far, and eventually they will be disliked and lose credibility.

So, if this kind of thing, "Oh, I just said that." Or, "Oh, this is about me!" If you have any idea, I recommend you to review it once.

Who are you thinking about and speaking?

Just by being aware of it, the message that comes out will change.

If you do that, your subordinates and juniors will change so that they can see each other, and first of all, you will also change yourself.

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