If it's too much of a nuisance, it will impress you.

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Well, today, I'm going to talk about "If the nuisance is too much, it will impress you".

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Well, everyone.

Have you ever been bothered by others once or twice?

Isn't that enough?

That's right.

Well, it's about "nuisance" that everyone tends to hate, but even if it's such a nuisance, in fact, it can be quite impressive if it goes too much.

I said, "Who will benefit?" I'm talking about it, but is it okay if I continue like this?

Maybe no one is interested, so I'll continue like this on my own.

Because, in the first place, a nuisance is something that makes everyone feel a nuisance, right?

For example, when you ask people the way, it's annoying to tell you to the extent that you say, "No, no, you don't have to tell me that much anymore," isn't it?

"Would you like another bowl of rice?" When asked, I answered, "That's enough," but he said, "No, no, you're young, so eat without saying that," and you're forced to pour another one?

From the other person's point of view, even if I'm trying to be kind, from my point of view, will it be annoying because of the degree problem, the difference in degree of each other, the difference in values, such as "No, it was only a little bit at the beginning ..."? Isn't it? It means that it will be divided into problems, right?

For example, I often hear about apartments, but the noise of the person in the next room is noisy.

This is also a problem that the person next to you makes a sound to the extent that the person who feels that way is noisy, right?

If it's a smaller sound than that, it won't be annoying, and on the contrary, how do you feel if it's louder, contrary to expectations, and even louder?

I'm sure this will go beyond the nuisance and be disgusted.

Or on the contrary, it's too splendid, and you even remember the excitement, don't you?

Because it makes such a loud noise.

"How do you make that sound?" On the contrary, don't you think you'll be worried?

It's the same with those who kindly show me the way and those who say, "Eat your meal."

They stick to me, accompany me to the end and tell me the way, come with me to the destination, or give me a ride in that person's car or something, and entertain me with such a high level of hospitality. If so, I'm sure it will be a nuisance, and on the contrary, I feel that interest, respect, and excitement will be born.

Well, there aren't many people like that.

Like this, the zone where people feel unexpectedly annoying is different, but I don't usually live consciously.

If each other's annoying zones are the same, I'm sure it won't be a nuisance, and if it's not a nuisance, it won't be a problem, and on the other hand, if each other's annoying zones are different, it will be annoying, and if it becomes a nuisance, it's easy to lead to trouble. That means, if you grasp that zone, you can avoid unnecessary troubles with each other and live in a good relationship with each other, right?

Well, was the story so far good?

So, in the future, how on earth should we use this story in real life? That's what I mean, but if it's everyone, how would you use it?

If it were me, would I understand other people's nuisance zones and correct my actions so that I don't enter that nuisance zone?

Well, speaking of running away, it's a style of running away, but it's a form of giving yourself up and adjusting to the other person.

But then, if I don't have much stress and I can spend time without trouble, is that it? I also think so.

You can use your time meaningfully.

After all, I don't think there's anything more useless than having trouble with others.

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