The reason why it's better not to blame people

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Well, today I'm going to talk about "why it's better not to blame people."

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Well, everyone.

How is everyone?

Whether it's someone else or a relative, don't you blame them when people make mistakes?

Well, I understand how you feel.

Because sometimes my work doesn't go well because of that person, I get angry with someone else, and my evaluation may go down.

But did you know that if you stop doing this from now, you won't lose money in the end?

So today, I will explain the contents in order to those who didn't know about it.

By the way, just by knowing this, you can live a very happy life, and if you teach this way of thinking to your children and friends, everyone around you will be able to live happily, so it is the birth of a happy world.

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First of all, please know the basic premise.

Everyone makes a lot of mistakes.

I mean, the structure of the brain is like making a mistake even if it's just a little thing.

So if you say it's a way, it can't be helped, you make a mistake.

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Well, then, I will continue to talk to those who have not left.

First of all, the brain seems to be cleverly made, but there is also a slightly stuple side, and it is easy to cause bugs.

For example, when you get a lot of stress, when you think a lot from morning to night, or when you don't get enough sleep.

In other words, at times like this, the brain is overloaded and the damage is accumulated, so the brain is in a state where the brain does not move normally more than usual.

Moreover, there are psychological effects that people say earthly desires and repeatedly think about various desires, and while working, thinking about tomorrow's schedule, where to play, who to meet, what to eat, and fun things that that person is doing. You will naturally imagine something comfortable in your head.

That's why I'm moving my hands, but I feel like I'm in a different dimension in my head.

If that happens, what will happen in the real scene is, of course, you will say what you envisioned as it is, or your hand will look blurry, so you will do the wrong work, or if you see it from the perspective of others, it will look like you made a mistake. That's why.

But as a brain, I just said what I was thinking or put it into action, so it's not a mistake at all.

Were you not there once in a while?

A person who laughed at the teacher at school and called him "Mom..."

That's also this kind of mistake.

But Japanese people are a race where there are still a lot of serious people, so I won't allow a single mistake.

It has to be a white society, there is a tendency to thoroughly implement a zero-risk strategy, right?

If you make a mistake, you will hit it, and if you make a mistake, you will be punished.

But if you do that, it's like manufacturing people who will be ruined, people who will be intimided, and people who will leave you.

If that's the case, there is only one hand left, and I won't blame you if you make a mistake.

It all comes down to this.

Even if the person is all bad, I mean, the fact that everything is bad itself is quite difficult to find in this world.

It's difficult enough to meet aliens.

In general, about 10% of mistakes are not the person's fault, and in most cases, mistakes are made due to other causes.

In terms of percentage, it feels like 90% of the people who created the direct cause and 10% of the other causes.

This fact is also something you will understand if you think about it carefully, but there are few people who can think about this, so why don't you try this deep digging?

I'm sure an interesting discovery will come out.

The world that is different from the world I've seen so far is surprisingly spread.

At the same time, the ability of people who have been able to do this has increased dramatically, and the popularity from the people around them has also increased dramatically.

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Today's story.

The topic has gone to various places, so it may have been a little difficult to understand, but next time, please take your time and read it carefully.

In short, it was said that if you don't blame people's mistakes, it will be good for you as a result.

Well, every day like this, I also use psychology, brain science, personality analysis, etc. to make a blog about how not to ruin others in an easy-to-understand way.

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