If a person who likes to help others is too involved in hospitality, he will ruin people.

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Well, today, I'm going to talk about "people who like to help others will ruin people if they are too involved in hospitality" while brushing up my past blog.

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Then it's the main topic.

I really respect people with high hospitality.

(Well, it may be a boring explanation, but what is hospitality? I will answer your question. Let's roughly say hospitality is the best hospitality, the ability to sense what the other party wants you to do in advance, the ability to deal with it first, the ability to predict the other party's troubles, and after all, the ability to deal with it in advance so as not to be troubled, Moreover, each person's taste and personality are different, so if you do not have the observation, judgment, empathy, and richness of sensitivity to have information specialized for each person, you will not be a hospitable person.)

There are probably a lot of people like that who are not conscious of themselves.

I really have a high entertainment spirit, and I want to bow my head below that person involuntarily.

(I tried to dig deeper into myself about the psychology that makes me want to bow my head. As a result, it seems that I still don't have enough hospitality, I want high hospitality, I have a sense of respect for high people. " The key is to say, "I want to lower my head," and if you want to lower your head, you admit that the other person is superior to yourself, and you already admit that you can't compete with that opponent. Let's say this makes you angry at that time. If you say you're jealous, if you see a person with high hospitality and feel jealousy, this time you see that person as a rival. In other words, at a time like this, I am aware that my hospitality power is also moderately high, and I have a fighting spirit that I will not lose to that person. I'll go back, so it became clear that I still don't have enough hospitality.)

In fact, if you feel high hospitality, you will naturally say, "Thank you very much." I'll say thank you, and a person who has such a nice weapon.

Today, I met an elderly woman with high hospitality at the cash register at the supermarket.

For example, it's a luxury hotel, a certain theme park, and a department store has received customer service training over and over again, and I think I can finally go out.

That's why I use words very much, and my way of doing it is beautiful.

It's comfortable even if you deal with it.

But the person I saw today, no matter how you look at it, it didn't feel like you learned the training repeatedly, and it felt very natural.

Well, I didn't ask him the right answer, so why can you serve such a polite customer?

Maybe he was a hotel man in his previous job or something...

(I'll supplement it. It's true that I may have been taking a lecture on customer service in my previous job, but that alone is difficult to demonstrate outstanding hospitality, actually. Because, after all, if it is a hospitality that is simply overwritten, it will be rough somewhere. But it doesn't come out, high hospitality that doesn't make you feel even if it comes out. This is because it is deeply related to the personality and nature of the person. In other words, in terms of personality, he is a helper. People who like to support people, feel joy in helping people, and want to see people's happy faces are like this. Therefore, it is said that people with this helper personality can demonstrate the strongest hospitality by learning hospitality.)

Anyway, I'm also working with people, so I think "I have to increase my hospitality", but when I get close, my words collapse and I feel free to touch my body.

They say, "There is courtesy even in close friends," and there are people who care if you make a mistake in how to close the distance, so you have to be careful.

So, when I see a person with beautiful behavior, I feel like I can study and return to my original intention.

Today was also a good day with learning.

See you later✌️

(So, I haven't touched on today's theme at all so far, so I'll touch on it at the end, but I'll warn you that if you overdo this hospitality, you will ruin people. That is to say, if you do everything ahead of time, of course, the other person will have nothing to do. To ruin people means that you won't do anything. Let's say that the person who was doing various things for that person disappears in front of you for some reason. How about doing that? Aren't the people left behind in trouble? I don't know where and what to do, I won't be able to live an independent life. That's why it's a story that you shouldn't overdo it.)

Well, how was this story today?

Did you get a little tame?

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In addition to this, I blog about how to communicate well, how to build good relationships, and sometimes I think of things.

If you don't mind, please come to the past blog.

Maybe there are some hints for you to live in easy mode.

See you tomorrow✌️