I can't have a conversation, what should I do?

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The answer is simple.

"You don't have to force it to bounce, do you?" That's my answer.

That's because, this consultant, it's painful not to have a conversation with others, isn't it?

So, I try my best to force it to bounce, but in the end, it doesn't bounce.

Sometimes it works, but most of them end in failure.

In the end, you probably feel tired of doing that process hard every time, don't you?

Sometimes, I blame not only myself, but also the other person.

"I'm doing my best too, so you should at least make an effort to make it exciting!" What?

But even if you can't say it directly, you can think about it in your heart, and in the end, you will eventually fall into self-loathing.

It's already a completely negative spiral.

I think it's probably this repetition.

If that's the case, let's quit once.

Let's separate that loop once.

Let's get rid of that negative loop that falls into self-loathing once.

If you do that, I'm sure you'll feel better.

There is no doubt about this.

Then, naturally, strangely, on the contrary, the conversation bounces.

In the end, the strong feeling of trying hard, working hard, and trying hard to make the conversation is transmitted to the other party, and there is a possibility that the other person was also a little scared.

Do you say the pressure is amazing, "Why are you so nervous?" It's like that.

In the end, people are a little scared when they are under pressure, aren't they?

If you come, it seems like you'll pull it.

I'm calm here, but if the other person's passion is too hot, to be honest, I'll pull it, right?

There is a great possibility that the situation was happening.

In other words, there is too much temperature difference in conversation with the other person.

If that's the case, you know that it doesn't bounce, right?

In the end, in conversation, harmony with the other person is important.

Is it like making a sound together?

You can't have a conversation alone, can you?

If you're having a conversation alone, it's not a conversation, it's a monologue.

In other words, conversation is also an act that can be established only after the other person is there.

Even if you don't bounce it unilaterally, even if you do your best to drop a bouncy topic, a topic about the other person's hobby, current affairs story, or a wide show-like story, the other party is not interested in that topic now. It will be completely worthless.

So, as I told you earlier, if the temperature difference is different, the conversation will become even more annoying, right?

"Shut up for a moment!" What do you have to say?

No matter how much you talk about your favorite hobby, "It's not that topic right now!" Why don't you cut it off?

So, in such a case, I won't force you to bounce.

I think this is the best solution.

So, in such a case, why don't you wait for it to bounce naturally?

If you leave it alone, you may get a little excited topic from the other party, and it's good to listen to the story with the tension at that time.

If you do that, the conversation will be lively.

One more thing, if I dare to introduce one bouncy conversation technique, there is a method called "First of all, devote yourself to talking to the other person".

In other words, I'm devoted to being a listener.

If you do this, the other party will talk more and more, so you will listen to the reaction well every time.

If you do that, the other person will chat lightly and happily with more and more synergistic effects, so if that happens, I will try to put my own topic this time.

In that way, why don't you create a conversation that bounces with the other person?

Still, when you still can't have a lively conversation, let's give up at that time.

There is a great possibility that the person himself is not very happy about the consultant.

Do you say it's not in your eyes?

So, even if you care about it in such a case, you will only be unhappy, so don't worry about it, and I think it's better for the consultant himself to devote himself to a conversation that does not bounce.

Or, if you don't deal with him or can ignore him, you might be able to cut off your relationship with that person.

So in the end, it was a little tough, but how was it?

Today's answer.

Well, in the end, even if you stick to a conversation that doesn't bounce forever, the consultant himself will just live a life that is not fun.

If you don't stick to such things forever and move your place to another place or community, there is a great possibility that you can live your life much easier and more happily than now.

So, why don't you put a change of place in your mind, take a little bird's-eye view, and think about your own life?

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