The one who controls a person's change controls that person.

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Well, today I'm going to talk about "the one who controls people's changes controls that person."

But before that, please.

Today's story, if "It was good!" If there is someone like that, please share it 😁

Then it's the main topic.

Well, everyone.

Are you a person who feels the "change" of the people around you?

Or are you the one who can't feel it at all?

I mean, are you not really interested?

Especially for people who always meet face to face, when there is a change in their appearance, talk, and attitude when dealing with themselves and other people, "Huh? What's wrong?" Don't you care about it?

I'm the type who cares about this kind of thing, so I can feel it.

However, "I cut only 1 cm of bangs!" Or, "I changed this accessory a little bit!" Or, I don't notice the very slightest change of that kind, but well, about the 90% type, you can notice the change.

This is also thanks to training, but if you observe too much, you will be recognized as a strange person, so I try to continue to observe only when I need it and when I accidentally jump into my eyes and ears, but this is like an occupational disease. So, when I keep doing it, it becomes a habit, and information jumps in from my eyes and ears, and my brain is quite difficult.

Every day.

Well, I'll leave my worries here and go back to the main topic, but about this "change", "Then why did that person change?" Have you ever thought about it?

If you think deeply about this "change", in fact, for the other person, your existence is recognized as a very important person, and such a function is born.

So, what's going on with the other person's psychology at that time? Even if you don't know everything, if you understand it to a certain extent, you can do something advantageous later.

I'll tell you, but abuse is strictly prohibited.

Well, then, what are the thoughts and emotions in the heart of the person who made the change? First of all, the fact that change is embodied means that there is already a change in your mind.

In other words, the desire to change is already boiling in my mind, and it appears on the surface of the body, and the appearance has changed, the use of words has changed, and the attitude has changed.

Moreover, the mind is affected by some event, and depending on whether the impact is negative or positive, the embodiment direction is also divided into negative or positive.

Is it a little too abstract and hard to understand?

For example, until now, sober people suddenly became flashy from the next day.

This is a manifestation of an obvious change, but in such a case, there was a reason why I made a decision the day before.

I don't know the reason clearly, but I can understand whether it is positive or negative from the person's facial expression, tone of voice, and attitude.

If the attitude and expression were bright, it would have changed for positive reasons, and on the contrary, if it was thorny or aggressive, it would have changed for negative reasons, and if you can narrow down the reason for the change to one or the other, the rest is The words you say after that will also be different.

But well, even if you don't know the specific reason, it has changed in the hope that the person wants to change, so I think it's okay to see the situation as it is for a while and support him until he is satisfied.

So today, we talked a little bit here and there, but it's a conclusion.

The psychology of the person who feels from the change of the person is that "the person himself wants to change".

"What's that conclusion!" It seems to be said, but this is the truth.

"I want to change my past self and live brighter!" Some people wish, while others wish, "It's hard as it is now, so let's live a little modestly."

The most important thing is, "How do people see it?" Instead, "What do you want to do?" So, if anyone around you feels the "change" I said today, please support that feeling.

If you do that, it will become a greater power later and come back to you.

So, how was today's story?

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See you tomorrow✌️