On the contrary, if you keep giving gifts, the other person will hate you.

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Well, today I will talk about "the reason why the other party hates you if you keep giving gifts."

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Well, everyone.

How is everyone?

Are you happy to receive gifts from people?

Or aren't you happy?

Well, if you think about it normally, there are many people who are happy, right?

However, in some cases, this also has an aspect that people hates.

You've never thought about it, have you?

First of all, being given something from people is a relatively difficult thing for Japanese people.

For example, "Isn't there a plan to get something from the other person even though you haven't done anything?" Or, even if you think, "If you get something from someone, you have to give it back" or "In the first place, this is not my hobby ...", it is a national character that is not good at refusing itself.

That's why I can't honestly be happy.

Whether you get unnecessary things from people or what you need, in the end, it's troublesome to think about later, so then "Oh, no, it's troublesome!" That's how you tend to feel.

In other words, there is something that is quite close to torture to keep giving something more to people who are in this state of mind.

"I don't need it anymore." Even if you say that, it only sounds like a social order and continues to ignore the other person's feelings.

Please think about this carefully.

It's just selfish and self-satisfaction, isn't it?

The other party says, "I don't need it." Even though I'm saying that, I continue to ignore that feeling.

It is supposed to accelerate the negative tilting heart arrows further in the negative direction.

In other words, what is ahead and pushes further in the negative direction, it is the end that it will be disliked.

Some people obviously hate it, and some people try not to meet too much so that they don't know.

In any case, it will cause mutual relationships to collapse, so I can't recommend it very much.

So, if anyone has an idea, I recommend you to reconsider a little.

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