A miserable end waiting for someone who just personalizes others

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Well, today I will talk about "the tragic end of waiting for those who can't help but privateize others".

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Well, everyone.

Isn't there anyone around you?

A person who just personalizes others and entrusts them with various errands.

That said, the job type is assistant, secretary, and other people who say that.

That's because the assistant business has become my job.

It's not that, it's for people who mainly have their own work and tasks and have to do it independently.

It's a sudden change, but don't people want people to help you when they're having a hard time?

At such a time, don't you just make a request, focusing on people who are easy to ask, and when it goes well, you ask for your own errands one after another, and when you notice it, you will be treated like your own secretary?

Or have you ever seen such a person around you?

This is, surprisingly, every community is there.

What stands out is mainly in the workplace.

Originally, I joined the company with a different job type, but when I noticed it, I realized that I only did things like helping my boss, colleagues, and senior employees.

What does that person think when he realizes this fact?

Is it "I'm being relied on"?

Or is it "Why do you always ask me to do these chores"?

Or I don't feel anything.

Rather, it's like, "If you get a salary for a job like this, it's easy to see"?

Well, the answer is everyone, so I guess I said it's all.

So, from here on, my prejudice will come in a lot, but the problem is the first and second races.

In particular, what I want to tell you today is the second race.

That's because today's theme is "the tragic end", and it's related to human relationships and interpersonal relationships.

However, this is quite a problem for those who think that "I am relied on" first.

However, it will be different from this theme, so if you are interested, please register as a friend on my official LINE and ask questions from there.

I will answer politely.

Now, let's get back to the main topic.

Today's theme is human relations.

Moreover, it is the "Tragic End" series that I am good at.

So, I came back to the main topic right away, so I'll start with the conclusion.

The tragic end of waiting for people who can't help but personalize others is "in the end, they will be hated and isolated."

If you notice it in the middle, you can still fix it, so you don't have to be disliked in the end.

The key is whether you notice this yourself or not.

Try to reflect on yourself and say, "I wonder if I'm doing the same thing?" What, I'm going to self-check.

If you do that, you will understand a lot of things, what kind of person you are.

If you know that, you will see a solution to what to do and how to become an ideal person, so introspection is really important.

The story has deviated again, so I'll put it back again.

Well, you've already noticed, haven't you?

Why do you hate me?

That's because if you personalize a person, your freedom will not work.

In other words, do people's work and tasks, be checked, if it's wrong, be fixed, and then be asked to do the next task again.

In this case, autonomy is trapped in almost every process.

In other words, it's said like, "I don't need your personality, do as I say instead."

It's good for those who can endure it.

In this way, if you have an environment where you can learn how to do other people's work and tasks, but in general, such work and tasks are single vertical work that anyone can do.

To the PC, just a job to enter, or just deliver a sealed letter somewhere.

However, well, I'm not saying that the work or task is unnecessary work or task, but if you don't have the skill to create an environment where you can do what you want to do, you can continue to do that work and task in such an environment. It's difficult for most people.

First of all, I get bored.

If it's a series of simple tasks, people feel free.

Moreover, when you get used to it, it's even more.

That's why people have a habit of wanting to do something else in their spare time when they feel free.

That's why I'm getting tired of that simple work, I'm getting tired of it, and even the people who make me do it hate it.

It's a chain of negative emotions.

So, if you don't manage good things and people, the human relationship, the wound will enter, and if you leave the wound alone, it will become a big ditch.

Right?

In this case, you can see that you are only waiting for the end that you will be disliked in the end, right?

So everyone, if you have any idea, I recommend that you correct it little by little from now on.

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