The miserable end that waits for a person who denies one thing and even the whole personality

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Well, today, I'm going to talk about "the tragic end that waits for those who deny one thing and even deny the whole personality".

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Well, how about everyone?

Didn't you do it involuntarily?

Something like today's theme.

Well, in any community, there are especially many people who do something when blood rushes to their heads.

I understand the reason, because I have blood in my head, so I say what I think without thinking about the future, right?

That way, I feel better, and I get frustrated in the first place, so I have a desire to smit out.

But there is, there is, but after saying it, there are quite a lot of people who regret it, right?

"Oh, I did it again!" And so on.

So, haven't you heard advice such as "Even if you have blood on your head, you can endure it for the first 5 seconds" or "That's anger management"?

Well, that may be the right answer, but I think it's better to show all the emotions I felt at that time, if possible, honestly? I think so.

In other words, when you want to be angry, you get angry honestly.

After that, as long as I don't fall into self-loathing, I feel like that's fine.

If you want to reflect after that, you can reflect on it, and if you don't want to reflect, you can go as you are, and if it becomes difficult to go to the community because of that, it's just a matter of changing the place of the community. Hey.

Unexpectedly, depending on the phenomenon that occurred at that time, there will be several options after that, so all you have to do is choose it yourself.

Moreover, I don't think it's necessary to think too deeply because I feel like I just need to take the path I chose to the right answer.

To be honest, it's hard to hold back your anger even for 5 seconds, isn't it?

If you can do that, you can also do anger management, but those who are not good at it, those who can't do it from the beginning, these people are already incompatible methods in themselves, so well, try it at least 3 times and " This is different, isn't it? If you think so, I think it's better to quit.

If you can't do it no matter how hard you try, it means that you're trying to solve it in a way that doesn't suit you.

It's the same as trying to eat something you don't like by force.

Soon, allergic symptoms will appear, so is it better to stop? I think so.

That kind of way of life is not a happy way of life.

Well, the story is getting more and more deviated, but I will also touch on the main topic a little.

There are people who deny all personalities when they deny one thing, this is certainly in every community.

So, no matter where you change, you have to get along well with people like this, but in the first place, there is a psychological phenomenon in people, something like a habit in the brain.

That has something to do with today's theme, but when people find even one bad thing about others, unexpectedly, other things for themselves, "Isn't that not good?" I have a habit of finding a place like that.

This is called the halo effect or the law of unified consistency of the brain.

Well, you don't have to memorize this term itself, even if you remember it, it doesn't matter, but you don't have to take exams or tests.

Rather than that, what I want you to keep in mind is the effect.

In other words, if you find a flaw and say it, it means "point it out".

Then, one after another, you will see the shortcomings, and you will become "that is not good, this is not good either".

Then, the law of consistency also works here, and it comes out one after another.

As far as I can think of, and every time I say it, my emotions get excited, and the use of words tends to be disturbed.

If that happens, it's already hard.

When the language becomes rough, there are quite a few people who run to denial of personality.

This depends on the original personality, but people with dark personalities are people who care about the eyes of others on a daily basis, people who care about evaluations, people who can't help but compare themselves with others, and people who envy others. That's right.

"Your fault is that you forget things quickly!" I wish I could quit, but I put "so" on it.

If you add "so", the phrase that appears next to people is generally unnecessary...

So how was it?

So far.

I was able to help you even a little?

If I was able to help you even a little, I'm glad.

So, the story is getting a little long, so I'll end it here for now.

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