"My boss and seniors are unreasonable, what should I do?" I'm worried.

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In this case too, there are several answers.

Each of you said, "Is this the most comfortable answer?" Please refer to that.

Well, first of all, I will think about the feelings of this boss and senior.

Why do these bosses and seniors say unreasonable things to the consultant?

Have you ever thought about this?

In the first place, there are a lot of people who can't think about this.

The reason is simple.

Because everyone is thinking about themselves first.

That's why there's no room to think about other people.

For example, have you ever had this experience?

After a few days, "Ah! By the way, at that time, I wonder if my boss was thinking about me," or "By the way, when I was saying that unreasonable thing, my senior, I was very worried," don't you come up with a lot of things later?

If you take a little time like this and think about that person, you will unexpectedly say, "Why did you say unreasonable things at that time?" Sometimes you gradually understand something, so if you know the reason there, your mind will gradually change in the direction of forgiving unreasonable people, such as "Well, I guess it can't be helped if that's the case" or "I was also sorry at that time." There is something.

If you are a person who can be in such a state of mind, this problem has already been solved.

If your boss or senior says something unreasonable, from now on, please deepen the reason, "Why are you saying such a thing?"

Then you will naturally find the reason.

Listen to the reason, and if you are satisfied, you can accept it as it is, and if you are not satisfied, it is better to convey your thoughts to the other party carefully.

So please find out if there is a place where we can compromise with each other.

If you can't compromise, I hope you can choose to leave the workplace or hold on until you can overtake your boss or seniors competently.

The worst thing is to accept that unreasonable thing without being convinced.

Because it's inside, there are also bosses and seniors who just pretend to be reckless because they don't like it.

So, is it worth going out with that partner in the future?

Is it worth depending on to the company even if you confront that boss or senior?

I can't give you an answer just this, so please put your hand firmly on your chest, talk to yourself, and try to find the answer.

I'll give you one hint.

The hint when giving an answer is "whether you are comfortable or not."

When you choose the answer, please feel whether you are comfortable or not.

If you feel comfortable, I think it will be the answer you should choose.

Well, let me introduce another answer.

The other person asks why bosses and seniors say unreasonable things, and even if you ask the reason, "Huh? That's why?" It's an answer for people who don't understand.

First of all, these people, to be honest, are the worst compatibility with that person.

In other words, even if you continue that relationship as it is, it seems that you are already in a relationship that you will not be able to understand for the rest of your life.

In an extreme story, it's a person who seems to have allergic symptoms so much that he doesn't want to breathe in the same space.

To be honest, there is no way to exchange unreasonable attacks from bosses and seniors, but you will have to spend a lot of effort, effort, time, and sometimes money to do it, so think carefully about whether it is worth it first. I recommend you to do it.

After that, as I mentioned earlier, there is also a way to compete head-on.

But this is a method that is not very productive, so I don't recommend it, but to put it bluntly, it's a way to put effort, perseme, your time and money, and position yourself higher than your boss and seniors.

In other words, in terms of ability and position, as long as you are in a position higher than that boss or senior, you will not be told unreasonable things.

Even if you are told, you are in a better position and ability, so you can bounce back, right?

In this way, there is no way to screw down with force, but if you are not careful about this method, you will be waiting for a painful return.

Because first of all, there is a possibility of revenge.

The way of screwing it down with force is inevitably easier to buy the opponent's resentment.

So I don't know what kind of revenge there will be, but some people with a deep-rooted nature harm even important people other than themselves, so even if there is a police, you can't rely on it, and they have a strong nature of resentment and chaining, It doesn't end forever.

That's why I don't recommend it very much.

It's just a matter of not scattering the seed that buys a grudge in the first place.

So if anything, I think my recommendation is to get away from such a workplace quickly, which is the best solution.

After all, there are a lot of substitutes for office workers.

Moreover, even if you cut yourself and devote yourself to the company, you will be cut when you are cut, and the era of taking care of you for the rest of your life is over a long time ago.

It may be better for your mental health to maintain a relatively dry relationship with each other.

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