The psychology of people who have a habit of saying, "I want you to know."

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Well, today I'm going to talk about the psychology of people who have a habit of saying, "I want you to know."

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Well, everyone.

Aren't you all around?

People who say things like, "I want you to know," "I'll tell you just in case," or "I'll tell you just in case."

To be honest, isn't there anything that doesn't matter what you've heard after this?

"Eh? Is that so?" If you think so, please listen carefully again when you meet that kind of person.

Pay attention to the lines after that.

Because it doesn't matter most of the time.

So if you continue like this, you're going to say bad things about that person, so I'll go back to the main topic from here, but then it's the psychology of the person who prefaces "I want you to know" and then conveys the contents, but this is actually, You're just insuring yourself.

In other words, it's protection.

In order to protect your health and life, you all get life insurance, right?

It's the same.

Words also have insurance, and if something happens, when you don't say what you knew and suffer damage to someone else, you think, "I'm the one who's bad," or regret "I should have told you at that time," and later on. When you regret it, your heart is damaged.

But if you say this word, "I want you to know" first, if there is really a problem, "I told you at that time, didn't I?" I can make an excuse.

In psychology, it's called a self-defense response.

Everyone doesn't want to be hurt, right?

That's why it can be a function that works instinctively, so people who are not aware of it may be a line that comes out of their mouth without realizing it.

So, it's a story that can't be helped to blame that person, but from the person who heard that line, they will hear a story that doesn't matter, so at that time, I feel like "It's useless" or "Well, listen to that story Should I do it?" What, I'm in trouble.

So on the other hand, it's also an unproductive line.

So if anyone is not aware of this, please be careful once.

Then, there is no doubt that the eyes of the people around you will change.

Moreover, if there is someone around you who you don't notice, please tell me gently.

It's to the extent that the person doesn't bother you.

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