The idea that if you don't live happily now, you won't be able to live happily in the future

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Well, today I'm going to talk about "the idea that if you don't live happily now, you won't be able to live happily in the future".

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Have you ever thought about something like today's theme when you're alive?

Even if you are told that, even if you are suddenly asked such a thing, "There is no way!" It looks like you're going to say that.

That's what I say, and I don't always think about this.

Coincidentally, I was looking at the daily scenery, and it suddenly came down to my head.

That's why I said, "That's really true."

I forgot what I saw and thought so.

How will our future be made in the first place?

When asked like this, some people somehow came to mind, right?

That's right, you can do it by repeating what you do now, right?

That means that depending on what you do now, you will be formed in the future, right?

For example, if you think simply and do well now, you will do better in the future.

If you live happily in the present, you can live happily in the future.

I'm going to say something a little scary, so if you do wrong now, you'll do worse in the future.

If you live unhappily in the present, you will be unhappy in the future, right?

This is a really simple theory, but don't you think it's exactly right?

Shall we shorten the timeline and think about it?

Please make it shorter and imagine it.

For example, let's say you just dropped your wallet.

Different people perceive this differently, but it's unfortunate for many people, isn't it?

I had to pay the rent an hour later, but I dropped all the money.

Or you are frustrated, saying, "I was able to shop for the amount of money in my wallet."

Look!

You're really unhappy, aren't you?

So if you live unhappily now, you will be unhappy in a few minutes.

This means that, on the contrary, if you change your way of thinking, you will try to twist it even if you think that you dropped your wallet is a happy thing.

If you do that, happy things will surely happen in a few minutes.

This is just an image, but I dropped my wallet with cash for the rent.

"You're lucky!" And I believe.

Even by force.

Then, for example, people who have savings will once again understand the gratitude of saving money, such as "I'm glad I'm saving money", so I'll probably stop shopping more and more uselessly from that moment on, and my savings will increase. You think so.

I might lose money temporarily.

"I lost 100,000, but thanks to that, I saved 1 million a year later."

This means that you will be lucky in the future because you are lucky now, right?

On the contrary, I dropped 100,000.

I have to pay the rent in a few minutes, but I can't.

I reluctantly took it out of my remaining savings.

I felt anxious and worried about the decrease in my savings, and I worked even more.

Worst of all, I fell ill.

Even if I didn't get sick, I managed to get back to normal, such as hospital bills and unnecessary expenses.

But if your obsession with the 100,000 you dropped is so bad that you regret it forever, it's not good for your mental health, is it?

My head is full of 100,000 things that I have dropped forever, and I can't think of anything else, and if I keep cheating and negative emotions, I will darken the people around me, and it will be easier to take it out on people, and negative There are also research results that show that tive thinking causes disease.

Do you understand the feeling of making yourself unhappy more and more?

So, if you don't live happily in the present, there is a high possibility that you won't be able to live happily in the future.

I can't say that it will be 100%, but some people may be blessed with great luck.

However, even great luck, if the mentality at that time is leaning towards the negative side, the reversal effect of that good luck may lead to falling to the bottom at once, so you have to be careful either way.

Don't you listen well?

A story about a lottery ticket I bought by chance and won a high price, but my life after that became unhappy?

This is because the mentality of the high prize was negative, so it attracted unhappiness.

I'll explain this principle once, but what if the mentality is negative when you win a high price?

I'm sure you may be happy at first, but eventually you'll be suspicious, right?

People around me can't believe it anymore.

"Isn't everyone aiming for their own money?" And so on.

After that, you're already a nerosis.

So no matter what, I think it's important to keep your current state happy.

Well, it's about the most important thing, how to stay happy, and how to live happily, but I'll talk about this on my official LINE after a long time, so if you're interested, please register as a friend on my official LINE.

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