I'm worried about the other person's face when I'm having a conversation, what should I do?

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You're worried about the other person's face when you're having a conversation, right?

Even if you say face, it's probably a negative face?

I think it's a problem that you mainly care about a troubled face, a stunned face, an angry face, a face that doesn't seem to be interested, and such a face.

So, I'll proceed with the story to that extent.

Well, from the conclusion, there are two options to choose for the time being.

One is to master how to speak without looking at the other person's face.

The other is the content of talking while looking at the other person's face, the volume of the voice, the inflection of raising and lowering, and the way the consultant also speaks while changing the face.

I feel like it's a little difficult not to go out with such a person this time, so I'll leave it out.

So, the two practical solutions that I can propose today are the two that I introduced earlier.

The first is to master the way to speak without seeing the other person's face.

Isn't this good for everyone around you?

"Where on earth is this person talking to?" A person who is wondering.

In other words, I become myself for this type of person, just on the spot.

Then you can talk without looking at the other person's face.

If you don't see the other person's face, you won't care about your face, so this will solve your worries.

It's just that there are a lot of people, "When you talk, look at the other person's face properly!" What a person who says things like a school teacher.

It's not that it's all wrong, but if you're worried about a person's face when you have a conversation, don't believe the person who says such a thing.

If you think too much that everyone is right, you will think more and more about yourself, "You're a bad guy."

Then, no matter how long it takes, you won't be able to escape from that area you're not good at.

Originally, the consultant is concerned about the other person's face, right?

When you're talking?

Then, before making an effort to overcome such a bad thing, "What kind of way you talk can you talk easily?" Or, "I don't care about the other person's face at all with this way of speaking!" It's more comfortable and fun to make an effort to find out how to talk like that, isn't it?

People are designed to last longer than doing something they're not good at.

So, if you don't choose a way to have fun, you will be able to impose a bad certification on yourself no matter how long it takes, so you won't overcome the area you are not good at.

If you understand so far, the rest is trial and error.

"If you talk without looking at the other person's face, that person will feel troubled, won't he?" Or, "Well, let's make the position of your face a little closer to the other person, but try to the extent that the other person's face is not in your sight," or "If you focus on the other person's eyes and talk, the other person's face will look a little blurry. But it looks like you're looking at the other person's face properly, so let's talk about it with this," or "If you focus on what's behind the other person, the other person's face will hardly be in sight, and this will be like you're looking at the other person's face, so try this. "U" and various things, while caring about the other person, you will also learn how to talk so that your impression will not be bad.

Well, worst of all, there is no way to talk without looking at the other person's face at all.

I mentioned a little at the beginning, but there are a certain number of people who actually talk like that.

Moreover, when you talk to such a person, have you ever been concerned about the direction of the other person's face?

That's right, actually, you don't really care, do you?

People don't care about the way people talk.

Let's talk to the right, let's talk to the left, but let's look at the distance, but I'm only interested in "Oh, I'm talking somewhere."

More than that, there are a lot of people who are concerned about the contents of the story, or that they hardly listen to the story.

That's why, when people talk, even if you don't look at people's faces, there's no problem as long as you understand what you're talking about.

So why don't you try to find a way to talk to this consultant that suits you?

Then I'll just introduce the other person.

The other way is to talk while sensing the atmosphere of the other person.

This requires a little observation skills.

Whether people's eyebrows are up, down, the corners of the mouth are up, down, eyes are laughing, not laughing, cheek muscles are up, down, mouth is open, closed Whether it's because you're eating it, it's a way to talk while predicting what kind of state of mind you're listening to the story in now.

This is this way, and I have to change the content and atmosphere of the conversation while observing the parts of the other person's face, so it's quite difficult.

If you have a cloudy face, "I don't like this topic," or if the smile increases, "I'm interested in this topic," and this method is to read more deeply the face that the consultant is not good at and proceed with the story. I'll be the type to go.

So it will be a way to deepen the areas you are not good at, so it may be a slightly high hurdle method.

However, when you can do this, the conversation with any person will be moderately fine.

The point is that you will make the other person's facial expression an object of observation.

People have the nature of spreading people's atmosphere to others, so people who are concerned about the other person's facial expression are highly sensitive, and they are more sensitive to such atmosphere than others.

That's why I'm even more worried.

When the other person has a bad face, he falls into self-loathing, saying, "My story is boring."

But that's also just an assumption.

There is one last move that can be used at such a time.

If the method I've talked about so far doesn't work, there is also a way to "ask the other person" in the end.

One way is to say, "I don't know why," and honestly ask, "Please tell me because I don't know why you look like that."

If you are a kind person, there are people who will teach you.

Because there are a certain number of people of this type.

So it may not be good, but I think asking once is a way to overcome the other person's face.

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