I'm stepping into privacy, what should I do?

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Well, today, "I'm going to step into privacy, what should I do?" I will answer about your problems.

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The answer is simple.

It is to tell the other person clearly, "Please stop it."

Even so, it's difficult, isn't it?

That's probably why you're worried, but for the time being, please read it to the end.

First of all, the most important thing in this kind of trouble is to convey your intention firmly to the other person.

This will be the most important thing, so if you can't say it once, I'll tell it twice and three times.

Then the other party will really say, "Ah! I understand that I really don't like this person.

If you still don't understand, it's better to doubt that person's personality a little.

That is to say, there is a high possibility of developmental disorder.

It's ADHD, which is a hot topic these days, and Asperger's.

It's more natural to think about the light version of it, the lighter one.

Ordinary people can listen honestly once they are warned.

To a certain extent, when you get older and grow up.

It's different for infants and people who don't understand Japanese.

But even if you are told once and can't fix it, if you are told twice or three times, you will also try to fix it.

But if you can't do that, there's a big possibility that you have some kind of disease in your brain or mind.

So, please try to make that person a disabled person from now on.

Then you will naturally give up saying, "Oh, this person is a disabled person, so it can't be helped."

I'm not saying bad things about people with disabilities, but I just put it out as an analogy to make them understand that what you can do and what you can't do, what you're good at and what you're not good at.

Please don't misunderstand.

So, when you think so, this time you will reach the state of mind that "no matter how many times you pay attention, it can't be helped."

If that happens, it's already this one.

When you reach that stage, no matter what you say, you can pass on most things or respond appropriately.

However, it takes some time to get there, or once you think that you have progressed, you may repeatedly grow and retreat, such as retreating a little, so don't work too hard there, and look forward to your growth that progresses little by little. Sai.

If you are stepping into privacy like harassment, consult the boss of the company, consult the receptionist of the sexual harassment, or if the people of the company are not reliable, you can completely ignore it. Either get into it, or work as much as possible so that it doesn't suit the person, or if it still doesn't work, let's finally leave the workplace.

It all comes down to this.

It's a waste to spend the time of the consultant's life in such a place.

It may be better to give up early and change your mind in a new place and do your best.

Just one point, this consultant is probably, but he has a personality that is easy to be told a lot of things by people.

For those who are friendly, those who are easy to joke, those who listen to you properly, and those who are cheerful, people with such a personality are easy to fall into the illusion that "you can say anything".

Please think about it the other way around.

People with a cold impression, people with a tight personality, people who are indifferent to others, people who are not responsive, people who are dark, do you try to talk to these kinds of people?

If anything, people with bright personalities and sociable personalities are programmed into DNA to talk to them.

So, in the personality of this consultant, there is also a trap that attracts troubled children, so be aware of that point, if there are people who say, "I don't want to get involved with this person too much," close your mind. Why don't you try dealing with the so-called salt correspondence? ...

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