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"What do you think?" The psychology of people who suddenly ask.

Hello, everyone.

Sai&Co.WAKU Chare Lab's Sai&Co. It is.

Well, today, "What do you think?" I'm going to talk about the psychology of people who suddenly ask me.

But before that, please.

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Then it's the main topic.

Well, everyone.

Aren't you all around?

I was talking to a completely different person until then, but he suddenly talked to me and said, "What do you think?" People who say things like that.

No, you'll be surprised if you get dumped all of a sudden, right?

Well, even though I was nearby, and I didn't eavesdrop on the story, but if you talk about it nearby, you'll almost hear it.

So, if you say you haven't heard it at all, it would be a lie, but even if you are suddenly rejected by us, there are no people who listen to you while thinking in such a situation, right?

If you are in the circle of conversation, I think there are a lot of patterns that are quite troublesome if you do this in a situation where you are not in it.

However, what do you really think about people who do these kinds of things?

Do you want to hear an opinion?

Actually, this is different.

Because these kinds of people usually say, "What do you think?" After saying that, you start talking about yourself right away before time goes by.

"I think like this," or "I would do this if I were you."

In other words, this is not a reaction when listening to people's opinions.

By the way, is there anyone who will listen to the opinion again after time has passed?

There's almost none, right?

That means, in the end, people's opinions don't matter, and it's a manifestation of the desire to listen to your opinion first, say your own opinion, and affirm it.

So, even though I'm asking people's opinions, I can move forward without a reply, and even if my story is over, I won't ask back at the end.

If you don't listen back, it means that you are not interested in people's opinions, and you don't even doubt whether your opinion is correct or not.

At the point of not doing doubting work, it is a manifestation of confidence that your opinion is absolutely correct, and this is a manifestation of the desire to affirm and agree.

So that's today's conclusion.

"What do you think?" The psychology of people who suddenly ask me" was a mass of desire to listen to me and to listen to me and to agree.

So how was it?

Today's story.

Every day like this, I blog about the psychology of people who do 〇〇, people who do 〇〇 are disliked, and on the contrary, I blog about how to be liked by people.

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