Silent Observations

I stay quiet when people talk about other people in a nasty way.

I don't respond.

I'll be thinking in my head I know they're talking to others about me in that way too.

I also hate people who say stuff I don't agree with but then at the end of their sentence they say right or wrong?

In my mind I'm like this person is so brainwashed and ignorant.

But I just say to them, "I hear you" to avoid a fight, argument or losing them as a friend or family member.

I mean like "Why ask me if all your life actions are right or wrong?"

Setting me up to agree with you and validate stuff I wouldn't do or handle completely different.