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240518 お互い様の反面教師

確認が遅れて
振り回されるのは
だいたい
確認をキチンと行った層

総てが終わってガックリと
チカラが抜ける様な
虚無感が去来シたのです

心の準備がデキていたのは
幸か不幸か心境的には然程
苦痛も大きく無かったけど

本当にコノまま
付き合い続けてイイのだろうか

そう想ったりもスるんです



大体こう謂うときは
自分の事を棚上げシて
もの申して居る
そんなケースが多々アるので

他山の石とシて
更に己を磨いてイきたい
そう強く願うのです

自分がそう想った時は
得てして相手も斯様に
想って居るのではナいか

そうフィードバックを
己に返して

その結果とシて
ダメならお別れも
やっと視野に入るのではナいか

そう考えるのです

我以外皆我師
とは何処ぞの方の言葉ですが

反面教師もまた師なり
そう考えるに至れば
他山の石も一層
その輝きを帯びて見えるのです
(^-^)v


240518 Mutual Opposites Sided

Delayed confirmation.
I'm usually the one who gets pushed around.
It's usually the people who have done the checks properly

When everything is done, I'm discouraged
I felt a sense of emptiness, as if my energy had been drained away.

I was ready for it.
Fortunately or unfortunately
the pain was not so great, but

I wondered if I really wanted to continue our relationship.

I sometimes wonder about that.

But

Whenever I say something like this
I'm putting myself on the back burner
I'm talking about myself.
In many cases

I would like to improve myself even more
That's what I strongly hope for.

When you think like that, the other person is probably thinking like that too.

I want to give feedback
back to you

And as a result
If it doesn't work out, you can finally consider saying goodbye.

That's what I think

Everyone is my teacher except me
As someone once said...

A role model is also a teacher
If we come to think of it that way
I see the stones of other mountains
the stones of other mountains will seem to shine even brighter.
(^-^)v

by DeepL

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