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One reason why it is better to value human relationships first rather than solving problems

Hello, everyone.

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Well, today I will talk about "One reason why it is better to value human relations first rather than solving problems".

But before that, please.

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Then it's the main topic.

Well, everyone, have you all experienced this once or twice?

Prioritize solving problems and put off human relationships.

Don't worry, at this point, but there are a certain number of people who do this in every community.

That said, I haven't said a word that it's okay as it is.

Don't get me wrong.

"It's no good if it stays like this!" Because I'm going to talk about it from now on.

Well, it's relatively good, but it's seen in a lot of people with positions, superiors, and managers.

On the contrary, if there is someone who values human relations before solving the problem, that person is promising in the future, so if there is such a person, please don't let go and keep it tightly.

I'm sure that person will raise you to a higher level.

So today, I will deepen as usual about people who prioritize solving problems, but in the future, it depends on the position of everyone reading this blog, the situation they are in, and which community they belong to. I think the content will change the way you receive it.

For example, if you are an office worker, the company will be the main community, and if you are a student, the school will be the main community, and if you are a housewife, a neighborhood neighborhood association, a group of mom friends such as a nursery school, kindergarten, etc. will be the main community. It will be, or the family itself will be the main.

So, which community do you often belong to?

Or which community do you feel most stressed when you belong to?

If you try to be aware of these things, and then continue reading in the future, I think you will be able to take it into yourself as a more real feeling.

So, here is the core of today, so please don't skip it carefully and follow me.

Well, then why is it better to prioritize human relationships rather than solving problems? That's because if you have a bad relationship, you won't be able to fix it.

If you do your best to solve problems, you can solve them right away, right?

I'm not saying that everything is everything.

But don't you have any experience with human relationships, for example?

The experience of being done bad things by people, being told bad things, and being mean to me.

Isn't this unexpectedly left in the back of your heart all the time?

It's like the harassment I received when I was little remains in my heart even now that I'm an adult.

When this gets worse, it becomes a trauma, but it's a light feeling.

In fact, this phenomenon will happen if you prioritize solving problems before human relationships.

Well, it's not absolute, but many people will spend their time without healing the wounds they received at that time.

I want you to change the scene a little here and imagine it, but when you work to solve the problem, everyone is quite serious, isn't it?

Because if you don't solve it as soon as possible, it will affect you in various places, get scolded by someone, and be involved in your evaluation.

In other words, the psychology works because you don't want to lose, so everyone prioritizes themselves too much and can't see the people around them.

Terrible people are so desperate that they leave their surroundings behind...

So how was it?

The story so far.

I'm sorry again today.

Apparently, the story was going to be long, so please let me separate it around here.

So if you are worried about the continuation of today's story, I will upload this continuation at the same time tomorrow, so if you are interested, please come to my blog tomorrow.

That's why I've made my own request twice, but recently I've been blogging about community management in an easy-to-understand way using psychology, brain science, personality analysis, etc. every day like this.

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