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The tragic end of waiting for people who ask for a favor while doing things.

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Well, today I'm going to talk about "the tragic end of waiting for people who ask for a favor while doing things."

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Then it's the main topic.

Well, everyone.

Aren't you all around?

A person who asks for a favor while doing something.

For example, "Mr. 〇〇, can you do this while you're doing it?" Or, "××, can you take this with you while you're there?" Or, "Mr. △△, can you pick it up while you're at it?" Or, a person who finds someone's side without doing something by himself and tries to get them to do their own errands together.

This may be an errand for that person, but if you try it with the person you received it, you may think it's a burden.

Even if you don't say it.

That's because we do our own errands plus the errands you asked us to do together.

It's like I'm moving twice as much.

But the person who asked for it only thinks, "It's a little good while you're at it."

But please think about it carefully.

In the end, the only person who finished the errands efficiently is the person who asked for an errand.

In other words, the person you asked for, this person has something to do.

There is a temperature difference between the two of you here, the temperature difference that has become cold and cold.

Because the person who asked me did my own errands, so it was easy, and for the people who were asked, they did their own errands and people's errands.

No matter how you look at this, the latter person has more labor, doesn't it?

Moreover, there is nothing in return.

In other words, that's what it is.

What will happen if you ask and continue with this? By the way, do you all understand now?

That's right.

They'll hate me.

We won't be able to be close together anymore.

I'm a partner, a work colleague, and a school friend.

There are people inside, people who work hard without asking for anything in return for others.

But there are only a handful of people like that.

Most people want you to do their own errands after you finish something.

I won't say it, but I want something in return.

I think like this.

It seems to be the type of person called Matcher in psychology, but it seems that this type of person is the most.

That's why you can't keep asking people to do your business.

It was a story that if you do such a thing all the time, many people will hate you.

So how was it? Today's story.

Every day like this, I blog about various things such as the tragic end of waiting for people who do 〇〇, in the hearts of people who have a habit of saying 〇〇, and how to simply improve human relationships.

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