People are creatures that drag the old senses.

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Well, today, I'm going to talk about "people are creatures that drag the old senses."

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Well, everyone, today I'm going to talk about the characteristics related to people's sensibility and senses.

If you know this story, you will be able to live in various places with better relationships than now, so I want you to remember it all the time.

Moreover, if you are married to your parents, siblings, and have children, I want you to tell that child as well.

First of all, everyone has emotions, don't they?

Well, some people have something like a special disease that says they have no emotions, but many people are driven by this feeling, cry when they are sad, get angry when they are angry, and laugh when they are fun. I'm going back.

Moreover, that feeling is not temporary, but also has the characteristic that it lasts.

For example, haven't you all experienced it?

When there was something happy, the memory of dragging it all the time until a while later?

When you confess to the person you like and get OK, or when you study hard for a year and pass the school of your first choice, the joy of being happy will rise temporarily and it won't be the end, right?

Well, it fades with the passage of time, but even after that, I'm immersed in the afterglow for a while, and when I have a little time, I remember and grin, and from the people around me, "My face is loose!" What, didn't you get pointed out?

On the other hand, when there is something unpleasant or something annoying, just like when something happy happened earlier, even later, those unpleasant feelings and annoying feelings will pull the tail and take it out on someone, in the same way. Have you ever experienced crying alone in the toilet or in the bath when you have a little free time?

There is, right?

That's right.

That's why people have the characteristic of dragging the emotions they received once to the later.

That means, if there is something unpleasant in daily life, work, school, etc., it means that the person is dragging it all the time.

Then, of course, when you talk to people who continue to have such feelings, if you don't think about those words, if you say something that you care about, you will make the relationship more complicated, hurt the other person more deeply, and make you upset, and there are many things. It will develop into a bad and troublesome scenario.

Of course, relationships will be broken, and you don't feel like something good will happen even if you go out with that person, do you?

From such a place, you will also keep that person away, so if that happens, the relationship between the two people or the relationship in the group is already in the area of serious illness.

It's kind of difficult to fix it from there.

So before that happens, if you know this characteristic and feel like "I hurt the other person a little" or "I just did something bad" or "I said too much earlier", after that, tell him the opposite this time, I recommend that you return the other person's state of mind to the middle.

For example, praise the good points of the person, praise them if there is a place where they are able to do even a little, or if there is a place that was saved even a little, it is to honestly express gratitude, say these things, and the state of mind that is biased to the negative, pla I'll return you to the neutral position by throwing the words.

With this, even human relationships that were once collapsing can be returned to their original position first.

By the way, people who can control people well have this skill very high.

So, if you are in a position to manage the community, those who will work on it from now on, and those who want that skill, I hope you will read carefully what I have talked about so far and get hungry. .

By the way, positive emotions also drag back, so if you use it well, you can grab the hearts of others.

For example, it is also useful for things such as being useful in terms of love, getting promoted in the workplace, and becoming a dependable person.

Just one thing, I would like you to pay attention to, but only abuse is strictly prohibited.

If you do this, troublesome things will be waiting for you later, so please be careful.

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