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Advantages and disadvantages of seriously talking to people with different values.

Hello, everyone.

Sai&Co.WAKU Chare Lab's Sai&Co. Is.

Well, today I will talk about "the merits and demerits of seriously talking to people with different values."

But before that, please.

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Then it's the main topic.

Well, everyone.

Have you all experienced it at least once?

After seriously talking to people with different values, I felt, "I'm pretty tired."

Because first of all, the fact that the values are different means that there are thoughts, habits, and knowledge in that person that is not in you, right?

That means, there are many things I don't know, so of course, questions and "Eh! Is there such a thing?" There are a lot of surprises like that, if you talk about it.

Then, of course, people who like questions will be interested in each of them, and their brain tends to work to collect all of them without missing out on one question.

Because it's not absolute.

Then, if you don't rotate your head at full speed, you will spill those questions, so the more the conversation continues, the more tired you will accumulate.

So, whether you are taking a break somewhere, or your self-control will work so that you don't chase too deeply from the beginning, or your brain and body are doing it on its own.

That means, the important thing in creating a good relationship is how to create a comfortable scene for people, so a comfortable scene in this case is naturally to get on the story with a good reaction.

But when it comes to listening to the reaction well, as I said earlier, it is necessary to listen to the story without omission, so it requires a lot of energy.

If you are a person who matches the energy consumption, you can listen to that person's story in order to build a relationship with that person, and on the contrary, if you are a person who doesn't want to connect too much, you can generally ignore that person's story.

By the way, please note that if brain fatigue accumulates, your thinking will become extremely dull.

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